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Fidelity

This week I learned a lot of interesting things that I never would've thought about. This might be a touchy subject for some people, but I know that this is also a good subject for people to know. Not a lot of people know about fidelity and I'm here to tell you about it.

My teacher told a story about two different couples who used to go running together every morning. Let's call them couple NN and MM. One day the wife of couple N wasn't able to run because she had hurt something and the husband of couple M had responsibilities to take care of. Eventually it was only the husband of N and the wife of M running in the morning. The husband of N started to get excited to go running because he wanted to tell wife M about what happened the day before rather then telling his own wife. He realized what he was doing was bad and he wanted to change. Husband N ended up stop running all together because he thought he was being a bad person to his wife.

Advice when it comes to fidelity is that if you feel like you are cheating on your spouse whether it be not wanting to tell your spouse about something then that thing must stop immediately. There are many things that you may be doing and not even realizing that you are causing infidelity. Infidelity is common, but you may not notice it.

Infidelity is more common among women. The reason for that is because women become attached to people quicker then men do. That's why women end up getting attached to their coworkers because they will talk to their coworker about stuff that happens in their marriage and when the woman express their feelings to the opposite gender it makes the woman become attached to them in a bigger way.

Another thing of advice is that if you are and your best friends are all married (guy, girl) to different people. When your better friends with the husband and you are a girl then you should message the wife even though you barely know the wife. The reason for that is because that can cause a wedge between the husband and wife of your friends. It may be a little weird to some people for this to happen, but to other people especially to the married couple will be better for their case.

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